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Here are some tips for engaging in oral sex with men, or people that have penises. 

  1. Communication is Key: Before engaging in any sexual activity, including oral sex, communication is crucial. Talk openly with your partner about their desires, boundaries, and preferences. Discuss what feels good and what they enjoy, as everyone's preferences can vary.

  2. Establish Comfort and Relaxation: Create a comfortable and relaxed environment for both you and your partner. This can involve setting the mood with dim lighting, soft music, or comfortable surroundings. Ensure that both you and your partner are in a relaxed state of mind, as this can enhance the overall experience.

  3. Start with Foreplay: Engage in some intimate foreplay before focusing solely on oral sex. Kissing, touching, and caressing can help build arousal and anticipation.

  4. Use Lubrication: Applying a water-based lubricant can enhance the experience and reduce any discomfort. It can provide a smoother sensation and make oral sex more pleasurable for both you and your partner.

  5. Explore Different Techniques: Experiment with various techniques to find what feels best for your partner. Consider using a combination of licking, sucking, and gentle sucking motions. Vary the speed, pressure, and patterns to add excitement and pleasure.

  6. Pay Attention to the Entire Area: While the focus is on the penis, remember to pay attention to the entire genital area. Gently stimulate the scrotum, perineum, and other erogenous zones surrounding the penis to intensify the pleasure.

  7. Watch for Feedback: Pay close attention to your partner's reactions and verbal or nonverbal cues. The key to a satisfying experience is being responsive to their needs and adjusting your technique accordingly.

  8. Use Your Hands: Incorporate your hands into the oral sex experience. Use them to stimulate the shaft of the penis, explore different pressure and motions, or even gently cup the testicles. The combination of oral and manual stimulation can enhance pleasure.

  9. Take Breaks and Switch Positions: Remember to take breaks if needed, and switch positions or techniques to avoid overstimulation or discomfort. Communication is vital throughout the experience to ensure both you and your partner are enjoying yourselves.

  10. Hygiene and Safety: Maintain good hygiene by ensuring both you and your partner have clean genitals. If using protection, such as a dental dam or condom, make sure to use it properly to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections.

 

Here are tips for performing safe oral sex on women, or people that have vulvas. 

 

  1. Communication and Consent: As with any sexual activity, open communication and consent are crucial. Talk to your partner about their desires, boundaries, and preferences. Ask for feedback and listen to their verbal and nonverbal cues throughout the experience.
  2. Relaxation and Comfort: Create a comfortable and relaxed environment for both you and your partner. Ensure privacy, dim the lights if desired, and create a space where she can feel at ease and fully enjoy the experience.

  3. Foreplay and Arousal: Spend time engaging in intimate foreplay before focusing solely on oral sex. Kissing, touching, and caressing can help build arousal and increase sensitivity.

  4. Take It Slow: Begin by gently kissing and licking the outer areas of the vulva, including the labia and clitoral hood. Explore different areas with your tongue, using varying pressure and patterns. Pay attention to her reactions and adjust your technique accordingly.

  5. Focus on the Clitoris: The clitoris is a highly sensitive and pleasurable area for many women. Focus on it by using your tongue to stimulate the clitoral glans and surrounding areas. Experiment with different techniques, such as gentle licking, circular motions, or light sucking, and pay attention to what elicits the most pleasure.

  6. Use Your Hands: Incorporate your hands into the experience to enhance pleasure. Use your fingers to stimulate the vulva, labia, and entrance of the vagina. Experiment with different motions, pressures, and finger movements to find what feels best for your partner.

  7. Pay Attention to the Entire Vulva: While the clitoris is often the main focus, don't neglect the other areas of the vulva. Explore the inner and outer labia, the perineum, and the vaginal opening. Gently caress and stimulate these areas to enhance overall pleasure.

  8. Variation and Rhythm: Vary your techniques and rhythm to keep things interesting. Experiment with different speeds, pressures, and patterns to find what works best for your partner. Pay attention to her reactions and adjust accordingly.

  9. Use Lubrication: If needed, use a water-based lubricant to enhance comfort and reduce friction. This can be especially helpful if her natural lubrication is insufficient.

  10. Hygiene and Safety: Maintain good hygiene by ensuring both you and your partner have clean genitals. If using protection, such as dental dams or latex barriers, make sure to use them properly to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections.

Remember, these tips are general guidelines, and individual preferences may vary. The key is to communicate, listen, and be responsive to your partner's needs and desires. Every woman and man are unique, so it's important to explore and discover what brings your partner the most pleasure.

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